Let's Not Make It Harder Than It Has To Be

I want to break something down for you all today. Something that is very simple........or at least it should be simple.

You want to catch a boy's eye, so...

• Look your best. A little mascara and lip gloss never hurt anyone. And try wearing a color that flatters your skin tone. Looking your best will do wonders for your confidence, and confidence is VERY attractive.
• Be friendly and warm - not just to him, but to everyone
• Offer genuine compliments and praise
• Attend functions that he is likely to be at, i.e. a certain party, church, etc., and make it a point to NOT stay in a cluster of your girlfriends.

Do not...

• Dress like a skank. It's okay to be a little mysterious and coy by covering up appropriately.
• Follow him around like a puppy
• Be mean to other girls or ignore others - he will see this and wonder when you'll start to treat him this way
• Be phony or fake. When you are yourself, you will attract someone who will be a better fit for you.

The end. No really. It really could be this easy. Right?

This post's title came from this song:
Girls Chase Boys by Ingrid Michaelson